Saturday, October 03, 2009

What DO I do all day?

Yes, it's true, I lead a glamorous life.

Okay, maybe it doesn't sound that cool to someone who's never tried it, but it keeps me busy and happy and learning a LOT. I can't stand it when people say I'm not a "working mom." I know that I am really, really lucky that I've been able to be with the kids full-time, and I don't want to sound ungrateful. I just don't like being referred to as someone who's not working!
I thought once summer was over and things were more "routine" that I might have a little more time on my hands, but it hasn't felt much like that so far. In fact, it feels like our family has been really, really busy. Busy with what, you ask? Well, I don't really know.
I've come to the conclusion that motherhood is like running on a treadmill. You work really hard, but rarely feel like you are getting anywhere. For example, I clean the house, and yet, it never seems to be clean. I cook the food, and then I have to cook more. I change the diapers, and they always seem to fill up again. I ask the kids to do things and they look at me like I am completely crazy. Also, Jonathan throws his sippy cup at me and calls me an idiot.
I do it all with the hope that somewhere down the road I will suddenly realize that my kids have grown up into very cool people. I get glimpses of that all of the time, and think that maybe we're all getting somewhere after all. In the meantime, like a treadmill, I know it is definitely making me a much stronger person. Also, even when it seems really sweaty and gross, I have a lot of cool songs on my mp3 player. And then there's Jef, of course. He's like the guy at the gym who always turns the TV to stupid channels. Ha, ha. Please know that is a joke, I'm just not one to gush about my EC in public, but we really do love each other and all that.


Here are some pictures of the last month since I haven't blogged in ages. I've already written a novel, so I will try to give condensed explanations.

Jono, bath. No sippy cup thrown, but much splashing.

Goodbye summer, we will miss you.

Logan in crib. Wide awake as usual, but cute enough to pull it off.

Cousin party. So fun. Thank you coolest Aunt ever.

Lord of the Dance.

Mom, why are all the people at Wal-mart smiling at me? Well Hannah, I think they really like your hat.

May not look a lot alike, but act much the same.

Woah, Logan and solid food have really hit it off.

Midair shot, nicely timed, Jef.

Windgardium Leviosa to you too, Taylor.

Train conductors hat meets fashion diva.

Yes, dear, your hair does look okay in the back.

One more tooth to go, and you'll be able to sing that song for Christmas, Jane. You know which one I mean.

Toby, Oh Toby.



No tea parties here, but plenty of kool-aid parties.

8 comments:

Grandma Grace said...

The good thing about a treadmill is that once in a while it slows down and even stops. There will come a time when you will wonder, What shall I do today?
You are a good mom.
GG

Melissa @ A Child at Play said...

I hear ya! You have quite the view from your treadmill - very cute kids!

Megan said...

I think that stay-at-home moms have the hardest/most important/best job in the world, and you are great at it. Keep that in mind the next time Jono throws his sippy at you!

Yes, you got the Boxcar children's names right. But I have such a hard time believing that Tommy was ever a whiny little brother. :)

Catherine said...

You really are a great mom and make a huge difference in their lives. You're a great cousin, too. I was really looking forward to coming to hang out on a Wednesday night one of these days. But now that I am in young women's, we have an YW activity every Wednesday night. :( So now I'll need to come down on a Monday or Wednesday morning to hang out with you and Karen. We'll figure something out. It'll be fun!

Herrington's said...

I vote all us stay-at-home mommies get together and sign a petition to the government and make them pay us something for raising America's future leaders.

Amy Miller said...

I love the treadmill analogy - perfect! Glad you and your cute kids are doing well. Oh, and if it makes you feel better, I don't think you're an idiot. :)

Melody said...

I only have one kid who isn't even mobile yet and I get overwhelmed, so you must be superwoman! You will be in GREAT shape when the treadmill eventually slows down. :)

El Jefe said...

Dear Julie,

We should get a treadmill.

Jef